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October Is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

What began as a single day became a month-long campaign to raise awareness of domestic violence and how survivors can be helped.

 

In 1981, the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence designated a day for unity and solidarity for battered women. That evolved into Domestic Violence Awareness Month, which is observed across the county in October.  Carolyn Fish, executive director of the Center for Safety & Change in New City, said it is really a campaign to raise awareness.

Fish explained the purpose of the month-long campaign is to remind people to think about battered women and what they can do to help end domestic violence, how they can support those who are being abused and remember the victims who were murdered.

Fish’s remarks came at a ceremony on Thursday officially changing the name of the Rockland Family Shelter to Center For Safety & Change.  The agency began 34 years ago providing shelter and services for survivors of domestic violence and sexual abuse and over the years expanded to offer programs for victims of all crimes in the county.   

Rockland County Executive C. Scott Vanderhoef said, “We declare this month on behalf of not just those who come to the center for help but we declare this Domestic Violence (Awareness) Month for those who should come to the center for the prevention of the violence.  When they come here, the harm has occurred. The biggest job we have in Rockland County is the prevention of the harm to begin with.” 

Fish said the Center For Safety & Change planned a series of events including its 33rd Annual Harvest Auction of goods and services on October 21 from 4 to 9 p.m. at the New York Country Club in Spring Valley. Admission costs $90 to the program, which includes guest Auctioneer Lorraine Bracco and a silent auction, buffet dinner, live auction and dessert. On October 23 Student Activists Ending Dating Abuse (SAEDA) will hold a conference on teen dating violence prevention and a presentation to school students by a mother whose daughter was murdered by her boyfriend.

“These are all activities to help generate interest, thought and support about how we’re going to end violence against women and children,” Fish said.  

Vanderhoef said county office buildings would be illuminated in purple for the month.

Fish announced that Gov. Andrew Cuomo signed a bill increasing the length of time domestic violence victims can stay at an emergency shelter. The current law allows survivors to stay for 90 days with a 40-day extension. The change permits victims to stay in the shelter for up to 180 days.  Fish said the new legislation would help “keep people safe.”

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Kathleen May 21, 2013 at 08:55 am
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Heywood Jablohme May 21, 2013 at 02:48 pm
I agree with most of your points, but surely you are not implying that teachers are expected toRead More produce funding to correct school roofs, right? I think you got a bit off topic here, but I agree that our educational infrastructure is in disrepair and is in desperate need of rehabilitation. Maybe if our teacher's unions allowed a little more leeway we could allocate funding a little more appropriately and fund the important things instead of overpaying paying dinosaur teachers who lost interest a long time ago and fight any and all forms of teacher benchmarking.
WGMom May 20, 2013 at 09:10 am
It's entirely true that every professional has out-of-pocket expenses. But as someone who worked asRead More a corporate trainer, I can guarantee you I NEVER had to pay out of pocket expenses for supplies to teach classes. Every piece of paper, supply, and even snacks for the participants were fully covered expenses. If I had to spend out of pocket money to procure supplies, I could submit for a reimbursement, and receive it, no questions asked. I am now in school to become a high school teacher and I can see the stark difference in how the education of folks in a corporate environment is incredibly different, and privileged, than the public school environment. I've sat through numerous classes in the Clarkstown and Ramapo districts, doing observations required for my education certification, and while Clarkstown certainly benefits from certain advantages, the shabbiness of being a public school is still there. Furniture, such as teacher desks, that looks like it was purchased in a garage sale 30 years ago... faculty bathrooms that are dark and dingy, nearly crumbling, and sorely in need of updating. Etc. The public expects teachers to have professional training, act professionally, but they lack sometimes basic resources and are expected to function in an environment that feels more like a dungeon than an institution of learning. The citizens of Clarkstown, if they could get a tour of some of the facilities they are expecting children to learn in, and teachers to teach in, would be very surprised. We do supply some great technology, but then we put it in classrooms with windows that won't stay closed when it's windy, as one example. I spent most of my time in South, which is the best of the bunch, facilities-wise. Clarkstown North is a mess, Woodglen's woods are littered with fallen trees no one's cleaned up after Sandy, Laurel Plains had to be shuttered thanks to that whole foul stench... the district is in a situation where there are major capital improvements that are going to be needed. Buildings are aging, and it seems it's only the most basic of upkeep that happens. The district can't even fix the roofs of the buildings without applying for a state grant.
Heywood Jablohme May 18, 2013 at 07:17 am
What professional doesn't spend $500 per year on out of pocket expenses related to their jobs?Read More Staples offering 10% (or 5 in some cases) is hardly an example of the community getting involved. Thankfully, there are other examples of the community and PTA's getting involved and providing needed services. Clarkstown and surrounding areas hardly have substantial unmet needs in their classroom, thankfully.
Truth4all May 16, 2013 at 11:37 am
I guess better late than never. LaCorte is serving his 4th year as Mayor and was Trustee for I thinkRead More 4 years before that. This year is the only time he has brought the idea to the village about participating in this program. He is motivated by the opportunity of getting positive press for his County Executive campaign. The village should have been involved in this program ( as well as the Americorps program) long before this. On a positive note, hopefully the Village will continue this worthwhile partnership for many years to come.
Sunny May 16, 2013 at 03:50 pm
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Green Farmer May 15, 2013 at 08:23 pm
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b May 15, 2013 at 07:31 pm
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Watchdog May 16, 2013 at 04:37 pm
George, don't you have enough to do straightening out the affairs of Clarkstown. Overtime in theRead More Police Department is rampant and the Town Attorney is out of control. As Tom Nimick says, we need an outside auditor for that operation since taxpayers were abused with the hiring of a political operative Jay Savino who I understand is singing like a canary. Get on the right side George before the FBI comes a lookin" I hear that the Gromack war chest is the first place they are looking for clues. Do the right thing George or you will get trampled with the rest of them.
Tom Nimick May 15, 2013 at 11:12 pm
Congratulations, George. Now about your other responsibilities as a member of the Town Board withRead More primary oversight over budget and expenditures: Won't you be the one to propose the needed audit of the Office of Town Attorney? You know the problems exist - likely you know more about the problems than I do. It is sad to see you silent in the face of the abuse of patronage. When will we hear your voice on it?
Teacher May 16, 2013 at 07:24 am
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